20 Questions As We Enter 2020

20 Questions As We Enter 2020

Filed Under: Change

27 December 2019 | Written by Xenia Ayiotis

“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”
— Zora Neale Hurston —

A new decade.

A new year.

A new chapter in life waiting to be lived.

365 mornings full of potential and possibilities.

365 nights to rest and restore.

Fifty-two weeks of joys and challenges.

Twelve months.

Four seasons.

Here are 20 questions to ask yourself as we enter 2020…

Download a worksheet with these questions here.

Reflecting on 2019, without judgement, look back as an opportunity to learn and set new intentions for the year ahead…

1. What were the best things about 2019?

2. How did you grow in 2019?

3. What needs to be acknowledged about 2019?

4. What are you most grateful for right now?

Looking into this new decade and new year….

“Tell me. What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
— Mary Oliver —

5. What advice would you like to give yourself as you enter 2020?

6. What is between you and more peace?

7. What is between you and more happiness?

8. What patterns would you like to shift in 2020?

9. What beliefs, friends, habits do you want more of in 2020?

10. What are you committed to creating in 2020?

11. What are the hopes and longings that you’ve hidden away and almost forgotten?

12. What needs your attention at this time of your life?

13. What does that inner voice keeping telling you to do?

14. What can you do without?

15. What major indulgence are you willing to give yourself?

16. Who or what are you most committed to serving and loving?

17. How can you bring more fun into your life in 2020?

18. What courageous acts are you willing to take in 2020?

19. What is one small thing you can do towards realising these dreams and hopes?

20. What structure will you put in place to follow through on your intentions?

“Everything that has a beginning has an ending.
Make your peace with that and all will be well.”
— Jack Kornfield —

May Your New Year Be Filled With Blessings and Joy
May Your New Year Be Filled With Gratitude and Appreciation
May Your New Year Be Filled With Care and Compassion For You
And Our World.

With Love

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