Take “control” of your food with Mindful Eating

Take "control" of your food with Mindful Eating

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10 October 2024 | Written by Xenia Ayiotis

Is this story familiar to you?

You start each day with the best intentions, determined to “be good” and stick to the rules.

By evening, you find yourself staring at an empty bag of chips, overwhelmed with guilt and frustration.

You promise yourself tomorrow will be different, but the cycle repeats, and food feels like an endless battle you can’t seem to win.

The back-and-forth between restriction and overeating leaves you feeling desperate.

You are disconnected from your body’s true needs.

Sadly, for those of us with a history of eating challenges, this exhausting tug-of-war is something many of us have experienced throughout our lives.

But did you know there’s another way to approach food and eating, without dieting and restriction?

Mindful Eating offers a gentle and liberating alternative, inviting you to stop fighting food and reconnect with your body’s innate wisdom.

Instead of rules and restrictions, we learn to tune in, listen, and develop trust in ourselves again.

Picture savouring your favourite foods without guilt, enjoying chocolate without shame and eating in a way that honours your hunger and respects your fullness.

Imagine shifting from chaos to calm, from punishment to pleasure – where food is not your friend, nor your enemy and every bite is an opportunity to nourish yourself in body, mind, and soul.

When I was in the depths of my struggle with food this sounded impossible. Here are 7 amazing benefits of practising mindful eating which lead to taking back your power over food…

1. Stop the food noise.

Ever find yourself envious of people who can leave half a slice of cake on their plate? They aren’t these mythical creatures — they simply haven’t judged food as bad or wrong. When we judge food it creates a preoccupation with food. Food rules fuel obsession and cravings. By allowing yourself to enjoy all foods without judgement, you break the cycle of guilt. Mindful Eating helps you make peace with food, by eating with awareness and permission, so it no longer feels “charged”.

2. You let go of perfection with food.

The mindset of perfectionism with food can lead to cycles of restriction, bingeing, and guilt. Mindful Eating is about the “middle way,” where there are no “good” or “bad” foods. There are neutral choices that best serve your body and mind in the moment. This approach allows you to enjoy food without swinging between extremes, helping you cultivate a healthier, more sustainable relationship with eating so that cake and kale can peacefully coexist.

3. You rebuild trust in your body and yourself.

Many of us have lost touch with our body’s natural hunger and fullness cues. Mindful Eating reconnects you with your body’s innate wisdom, guiding you to eat when hungry and stop when you’ve had enough and that can be anywhere between satisfied or full. Over time, you’ll learn to differentiate between physical hunger, emotional hunger and cravings, rebuilding a sense of trust with your body and yourself.

4. You can cope with difficult emotions without always relying food.

Emotional eating is one of many ways we cope with difficult emotions. Whether it’s anxiety, stress, boredom, or loneliness, food can provide comfort.
Sadly the comfort is short-lived. The key is not to eliminate emotional eating but to bring awareness and choice into the process. Mindful Eating encourages you to acknowledge your emotions and to respond with self-care, exploring other ways of coping in addition to eating. This shift helps you develop healthier coping mechanisms, with or without food.

5. You can change with kindness, rather than criticism.

One of the most powerful truths is that you cannot change behaviours and patterns through beating yourself up. True transformation doesn’t come from restriction, punishment or control—this may sound counterintuitive but it comes from patience, acceptance and kindness toward yourself. The journey is rarely a straight line; it’s more like a dance, with steps forward, back, and sideways. As long as you keep moving, embracing every twist and turn, experiencing lasting change in your relationship with food is possible.

6. You enjoy more freedom and pleasure.

By eating mindfully, you learn to be fully present when eating, savouring each bite, appreciating the flavours, and noticing your body’s response. This is difficult to do for every bite and every meal but if you can have moments of awareness you will be less likely to eat on auto-pilot. This practice fosters a sense of freedom, helping you relax around food and experience eating as one of life’s simple pleasures.

7. You connect your mind, body and heart.

Mindful Eating encourages a deep connection between your mind, body, and heart. It’s not just about feeding your body—it’s about nourishing your whole self. As you become more aware of your body’s signals, you also tune into the thoughts and emotions that could drive your eating patterns. This awareness empowers you to make conscious choices, respond to triggers with compassion, and ultimately free yourself from reactive eating habits.

Imagine what it would feel like to go to bed without mentally auditing everything you ate that day. Or waking up without promising to “be good”. By letting go of food obsession and diet culture, you free up mental space for more meaningful, creative, and joyful pursuits. Your life’s purpose is not to be a perfect eater nor to lose weight —it’s to live fully, authentically, and with intention.

Wishing you well,
Xen

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“Words can not describe how Xen changed my life! She freed me from being a prisoner of food because food controlled every aspect of my life since I was a child. I abused my body in so many ways from starving myself, eating to the point of feeling sick to my stomach and using exercise to punish myself for the amount of food I had eaten. Xen also taught me to be kind to myself, to be patient with myself and most of all to forgive myself. She helped me to build a healthier relationship with food and my body image. Xen was patient, kind and listened to what I had to say. Her audio lessons and reading material on her online courses and her youtube channel also helped me enormously in this process. She helped me to live the life I was meant to live and I now look at everything in life (not just food) through a different lens!”

S.B., New Jersey, USA

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